self..

did you know that your self worth is self determined?
and your self esteem is self reliant ?

SELF.
your damn self.

I hate seeing people blame every single issue they have on the world or the people they surround themselves with. when in reality you choose how people treat you & how they see you.. if you let someone treat you like trash then guess what - yo ass will be in the garbage.

ALONE. because they won't be jumping in after they toss you away. but who's to blame for that?

ahem.. you.

as easy as it may be to blame your problems on others - if the same thing keeps happening to you over and over again and your the only constant factor in the situation then maybe its time to get your head out of your ass and realize that YOU'RE THE MAIN PROBLEM. (it took me awhile to accept that fact myself)

we all choose how we present ourselves, riiiiight? (right.)
so why can't we choose to present ourselves in a better light?

girls- your tired of being misused by men and tossed aside? then stop letting them misuse you, demand the respect you deserve and then maybe you'll receive it.

boys- are you tired of always having to deal with trifling' females who aren't about shit but just look hella good? then stop settling for a girl who only has half the package - and get with a woman who can hold an intelligent conversation and is also nice to look at. women like that do exist, look harder and actually listen when a woman speaks. maybe you'll find some.

so next time you have a problem that you want to complain about... think and see if there's something you can do ALL BY YOURSELF to put a solution in motion. because i`m tired of seeing beautiful, intelligent, creative, amazing (yes I'm talking about you) individuals unhappy because they don't realize they have the power to change their circumstance


if only they would look within themselves.

peace