phoneblog

whenever i blog from my phone at like 2:07am, you know i`m going through an internal struggle .

i can't really sleep because i slept ALL day . no exaggeration necessary. it was bad. but anyways - thought for the evening.. morning?..the time lapse in between..

oddly enough, considering this is my blog- i'm surprised i haven't already covered this topic (ahem) SEX.

[its on my mind because i haven't been having any.]

i`ve always wondered why there is such a chasm between the normality of male sexual expression and the "oddity" of female sexual expression.

because from a young age its in engrained in our minds that men and women have their seperate roles and certain subjects topics and issues are to be discussed (or not discussed) depending on your gender.

now- i can't speak for anyone else, but i personally hate gender specific stereotypes & double standards .

like the classic; no one minds if a guy sleeps w/ multiple partners in a short period of time but if a girl does the same thing she's a hoe.

uhm why? and the sad part is its mostly females who feed the fuel on the hoe-fire. because of all the hate between women.

example 2- the taboo subject of oral sex. its perfectly acceptable for a boy to brag about how he loves eating pussy, but you will never hear a girl brag about he she loves sucking dick. why? because if she did, every single person she knows would call her a hoe. (now i personally hate hearing people brag about any type of sexual act they've performed- unless i ask you... i most likely do not want to know)

and that's an odd subject too.. because a lot of people pass subject when in reality they're being rather hypocritical. i'm not going to spell out why . (ahem)

and my eyes are starting to twitch so i`ma wrap this up (haha, clever.)-

i guess i`m wondering why are women expected to act demure and shy about sex- like we don't have needs and urges just like men do? and even tho both men and women are sexual creatures, why is it when a women expresses her sexual individuality she gets labeled as something negative?

a woman can't be sexually secure, strong, & openminded? but a man can be?



i call bullshit.

peace .
(hit me on aim; we can discuss it)

goodnight